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Re: Co-dependency - A healthy need for other people is fine, but to allow your self-worth to be determined in reaction to other people is giving power away and setting yourself up to be a victim. We all have worth as a unique creation, and God has deposited in ALL OF US a special talent that is to be acknowledged, nurtured, and conditioned. It is like a plot of fertile ground. God has planted the seeds already, but we have to first acknowledge those planted seeds, tend to the surrounding soil with care on a regular basis, reap the harvest for ourselves and others, and start the process all over again. Abuse on ANY LEVEL is unacceptable and should not be tolerated, even against yourself!
As parents demonstrate a healthy, balanced emotional foundation, they present this model to their children. Those children will see that it IS possible to act from a rational perspective instead of an emotional one. Healthy, conscious parents can easily detect unhealthy attachments from their children because they are connected to their spirit and can tell when imbalances start to appear. Having a guage to measure emotional health is vital to any parent. Understanding mental health challenges and emotional disturbances brings about awareness which helps the parent make the proper choices for the well-being of the child. If imbalances are occurring, the conscious parent will not hesitate in seeking proper assistance, be it medical, emotional or mental concerns. When you are aware, you can be more compassionate and empathic. Some parents are more concerned about what others are thinking about their children instead of first considering the health and well-being of their children. If their child has some sort of imbalance, be it emotional, mental or physical, instead of getting assistance immediately because ultimate health of their child is first and foremost, they might say, “What will people think about my child if they knew they had this or that problem? What small image would that put on my family? What will they think about me? How do I face them once they find out?” Many parents would rather not attend to their child’s needs because of them “losing face” in the community. Many children go through childhood and adolescence carrying treatable imbalances and experiencing a worsened condition due to their parents refusing to acknowledge their condition and getting treatment necessary to alleviate their challenges.
If your child has a special need, illness, mental condition or emotional concern that needs special attention from Professionals in the Field, why wouldn’t you connect your child with the needed services? Two areas come into mind here, and they are Co-Dependency and Community Image. With co-dependency, you need that illness to help you feel needed and loved, and with Community Image, you are focused on how your family’s image is upheld in the community. In this later scenario, you love to take family pictures and boast about accomplishments, be them real or not. You dress your children in fine clothes many times and sit in church so everyone can see your family.
Images are very important to this kind of parent, and when the child does something that goes against the image in the parents’ mind, anger appears and the child gets the wrath on one level or another. They might say angrily, “We are the Worthingtons, and we do not act in that kind of low-life, uncivilized manner. What would the Jones’ think if they knew you acted in such a rude way?” So, what happens when their child has ADD or some other condition that required attention from a Psychiatrist, Mental Health Professional or Special Needs Program? Mrs. Worthington wouldn’t have it. HER child doesn’t have those problems. HER child is perfect. “After-all, my child is a Worthington, and Worthingtons don’t have those issues like those ‘other people’ do.” So, she DOES NOT get the proper care for her child, as she hides the imbalance so no one notices.
The wonderful, healthy, conscious, child-centered parent that you are would NEVER act the way Mrs. Worthington was behaving. Since you are learning to be the best connecting parent you can become, you will know when your child needs special attention, and you will make sure your child gets whatever is needed for their health and well-being. When you are truly connected, your spirit will let you know, even when your child is not around, when something isn’t quite right. You will investigate and do whatever is necessary with NO REGARD for the image it might present in someone’s perspective or judgment of you.
Isn’t it time to go from feeling frustrated, lost, overwhelmed and the feeling of failure to feeling confident, calm, relieved and successful?
Together we can transform your children from being angry, bullying, moody or too quiet to happy, compassionate, loving children. YES, and feel confident that you are using new compassionate parenting skills as opposed to how you were raised.
Parents with young children go NOW to www.cloudsofabundance.com and get your FREE Parent Video “5 Steps to Phenomenal Parenting”
Re: Co-dependency - A healthy need for other people is fine, but to allow your self-worth to be determined in reaction to other people is giving power away and setting yourself up to be a victim. We all have worth as a unique creation, and God has deposited in ALL OF US a special talent that is to be acknowledged, nurtured, and conditioned. It is like a plot of fertile ground. God has planted the seeds already, but we have to first acknowledge those planted seeds, tend to the surrounding soil with care on a regular basis, reap the harvest for ourselves and others, and start the process all over again. Abuse on ANY LEVEL is unacceptable and should not be tolerated, even against yourself!
As parents demonstrate a healthy, balanced emotional foundation, they present this model to their children. Those children will see that it IS possible to act from a rational perspective instead of an emotional one. Healthy, conscious parents can easily detect unhealthy attachments from their children because they are connected to their spirit and can tell when imbalances start to appear. Having a guage to measure emotional health is vital to any parent. Understanding mental health challenges and emotional disturbances brings about awareness which helps the parent make the proper choices for the well-being of the child. If imbalances are occurring, the conscious parent will not hesitate in seeking proper assistance, be it medical, emotional or mental concerns. When you are aware, you can be more compassionate and empathic. Some parents are more concerned about what others are thinking about their children instead of first considering the health and well-being of their children. If their child has some sort of imbalance, be it emotional, mental or physical, instead of getting assistance immediately because ultimate health of their child is first and foremost, they might say, “What will people think about my child if they knew they had this or that problem? What small image would that put on my family? What will they think about me? How do I face them once they find out?” Many parents would rather not attend to their child’s needs because of them “losing face” in the community. Many children go through childhood and adolescence carrying treatable imbalances and experiencing a worsened condition due to their parents refusing to acknowledge their condition and getting treatment necessary to alleviate their challenges.
If your child has a special need, illness, mental condition or emotional concern that needs special attention from Professionals in the Field, why wouldn’t you connect your child with the needed services? Two areas come into mind here, and they are Co-Dependency and Community Image. With co-dependency, you need that illness to help you feel needed and loved, and with Community Image, you are focused on how your family’s image is upheld in the community. In this later scenario, you love to take family pictures and boast about accomplishments, be them real or not. You dress your children in fine clothes many times and sit in church so everyone can see your family.
Images are very important to this kind of parent, and when the child does something that goes against the image in the parents’ mind, anger appears and the child gets the wrath on one level or another. They might say angrily, “We are the Worthingtons, and we do not act in that kind of low-life, uncivilized manner. What would the Jones’ think if they knew you acted in such a rude way?” So, what happens when their child has ADD or some other condition that required attention from a Psychiatrist, Mental Health Professional or Special Needs Program? Mrs. Worthington wouldn’t have it. HER child doesn’t have those problems. HER child is perfect. “After-all, my child is a Worthington, and Worthingtons don’t have those issues like those ‘other people’ do.” So, she DOES NOT get the proper care for her child, as she hides the imbalance so no one notices.
The wonderful, healthy, conscious, child-centered parent that you are would NEVER act the way Mrs. Worthington was behaving. Since you are learning to be the best connecting parent you can become, you will know when your child needs special attention, and you will make sure your child gets whatever is needed for their health and well-being. When you are truly connected, your spirit will let you know, even when your child is not around, when something isn’t quite right. You will investigate and do whatever is necessary with NO REGARD for the image it might present in someone’s perspective or judgment of you.
Isn’t it time to go from feeling frustrated, lost, overwhelmed and the feeling of failure to feeling confident, calm, relieved and successful?
Together we can transform your children from being angry, bullying, moody or too quiet to happy, compassionate, loving children. YES, and feel confident that you are using new compassionate parenting skills as opposed to how you were raised.
Parents with young children go NOW to www.cloudsofabundance.com and get your FREE Parent Video “5 Steps to Phenomenal Parenting”
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