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You have acres of diamonds already divinely placed inside you. You just have to be able to recognize your riches in their undeveloped state. Just as it takes pressure to produce the gem you see in the jewelry stores, it takes pressure from you to produce your treasures. This is where faith flowers. You know without doubt that you are going to receive great things and that you are on the path of progress and possibilities. You already have accepted the fact that you will have to apply the pressure of work, consistency and healthy thinking habits to manifest your riches. You see the end results first, give thanks for it, before you actually receive it, claim victory now and celebrate your success. This is the picture of faith.
Strengthening your faith, as a parent, gives you so much self-assurance and motivation to be the best parent possible. You now have a demonstration of faith in your life that your children will bear witness to and thus become part of their belief system. Most parents have experienced faith in action if they have lived long enough. For some it might be going through a recovery process from an addiction or bad marriage. For some it might be leaving or getting a job. For some it might be finding that “soul mate” and allowing themselves to be vulnerable, although they have been hurt often before. Most parents have experienced faith in action if they have lived long enough. For some it might be finally speaking up for themselves. For some it might be following a natural health program that they have been fighting internally for years because they were afraid or unsure of the results. For some it might be receiving benefits of a new religious path. For some it might be experiencing surgery where the doctor painted a negative picture, but in the end the results were in their favor. For some it might be committing themselves to a higher college education. For some it might be joining the Army with the positive benefits.
It is important to make ACTION a dominant factor in this faith process. You cannot be satisfied with having all the faith you can imagine and afterwards do absolutely nothing to reinforce your newfound belief. You cannot even hold on to your great faith image and possibility if you do nothing to make it a reality. Faith gives you the motivation to create the change you are seeking. Faith gives you the certainty that your reward, from your honest efforts, will be there waiting for you. Faith gives you the insight and the vision of the end result, which is predicated on you doing the work necessary for its achievement.
Make certain that your action is INSPIRED ACTION. When you are spinning your wheels, trying to get your car out of the snow, you are in an “action mode.” But this kind of action is not gaining you any traction. The idea of simply “working hard” to make something happen is not necessarily the best way of realizing your goals. Faith says that your desires are already yours, so you don’t have to fight the currents of your life experiences to reach your goals. Since your desires are already in place for you, all that is necessary is for you to relax and go forward, only with inspired action. This, of course, takes faith that must resonate within. “Working smart” defeats “working hard” every time.
Sometimes your reward is received without physical labor on your part, but most of the time the work is done intentionally. God does what God does, so you can’t regulate God’s rewards to you based solely on what you are doing directly in those areas of interest. For example, you have absolute faith that you are going be the best connecting parent despite your family history of disconnection and dysfunctional relationships with your parents. You know this because of your transformation, reprogramming and strong faith that God has you on His favored list and will reward you for your honest intentions and character. Your faith in God along with your intention to always do what is right will direct you toward being that close, compassionate, empathic parent. Your work and intentions are already registered with God, so all you need to do is be consistent in your faith and deeds. God will do the rest. He will cover the “how” and “when.” Your part is the “what” and “why.” So, you see, you can’t predict when your rewards will reach you just because you are doing the work you think is needed. It all comes back to having faith first and foremost, which gives you the sense of knowing your reward has your name on it.
In order to be the best, connecting, empathic parent, you have to possess a strong faith in your Higher-Self, all the wonderful possibilities, and then pass that vision onto your little one. I say a strong faith in your “Higher-Self” for a reason. You have heard many people use the overused phrase, “Believing in yourself.” I have always had a problem with that statement. A prisoner doing time for bank robbery believes in himself and strengthens his belief so he can, in his mind, rob banks better than before when he gets out. He believes in the “self” that is a bank robber. A pimp tells his “working girls” to believe in themselves so that they will do a good job and get more “johns” than the next girl. A professional “hit man” has a strong belief in himself to carry out his contracts successfully and avoid getting caught. An adulterous husband believes in himself as he juggles a double lifestyle between his wife and his girlfriends. If you want to be successful at anything, you need to “believe in yourself.” This is how you gain the mental fortitude to carry out your cause. So, you see you must make a sharp distinction between “believing in your SELF” and “believing in your HIGHER SELF.
You have an inner Higher Self that is inherently good. That Higher-Self wants that which is right and that particular Self working through your conscience produces good and bad feelings when you do certain things. I don’t think anybody is bad at the core. Even when you never see the innocent core, you just have to have faith that it is there buried deep. Belief in your Higher-Self is that innocent core self. The self that produces bad feelings when we do something that we shouldn’t be doing or thinking, and the same self that produces good feelings when we do something and think about something that we will be proud of later. That Higher-Self only produces that which is life giving, which is health promoting, and that which is positively benefiting others. Some people call it the God-self within.
Being an Parent is a tremendous responsibility to the children, and to God. You can sometimes forget the biggest and the foremost entity parents are accountable to and that is the Creator of us all. God has entrusted parents to deliver His Compassion, Trust, Love, Empathy, and concern to the children. The conscious parents know that every child is carrying God’s special mission to the world. And it is the parent’s responsibility to help each child develop their own strengths and motivation so they can dig within themselves and find their purpose.
Parents with faith make the most difference because they know and believe in invisible reality. They believe in the greatness of each child. They are humbled in their parenting position in being the one to: - Model in the best manner - Demonstrate to their children that it is possible to accomplish their goals and be whatever their dreams call them to be - Be there for them when they need a comforting shoulder to lean or cry on - Be there offering guidance and direction and another choice where they thought there was none - Show a way out for them, when their world offered despair and frustration - Be the light, where all they knew was darkness.
Parents with faith hold fast to the image they see within. It is this image that they work very hard convincing their children to accept and believe in. It is this image that parents want their children to claim as their own. When they claim this image, miracles happen. All this and more happen when faith is accepted and internalized.
Parents with faith bring more positive energy to the children’s activities and discussions. This positive energy is contagious and it inspires the young ones to dream bigger and bigger dreams. In the child’s mind they are saying, “Well, if my Mommy/Daddy can believe in me like this, there must be something special they see. Let me reflect on what’s inside and see what else is locked up in there. Let me get more in touch with my feelings, and see what dreams come from my reflections. What else can I accomplish? What new goals can I set for myself knowing that they will support me and back me up? How can I get what I see my parents having? Having faith is kinda fun. I can now imagine anything and feel good about it.”
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