SELF-ESTEEM part 1
Having a high self-esteem is essential to anyone’s growth and development and thus critical in making sure your children internalize this characteristic and important need. Having low self-esteem opens the doors to untold dark possibilities as those possibilities match how you feel. Are you the Great Self-Esteem Builder with your children? When you realize that you have a bully for a son/daughter, a withdrawn, isolative or a needy child, you have to act immediately so the problem does not escalate to a dangerous level. Studies have shown that when children are nurtured, cared for, touched a lot at the earliest of ages and continues to be the norm in the household, then the adverse behaviors of bullying, being isolative and overly needy will be at a minimum or non-existent. LOVE CONQUERS ALL. You all have heard this many times but how many of you practice this in every area of your life and how many of you use Love as the guiding principle when you are interacting with your children? Every morning when you first see yourself in the bathroom mirror, you should say, “I am the great Self-Esteem Builder” over and over with high energy and meaning. After a while this concept will seep into the sub-conscious and make a home there. Now when your sub-conscious has a hold to this, you will have this idea as the guiding principle whenever you interact with your children. You see them from a spiritual perspective, seeing only Good, seeing only Love, seeing only a unique one-of-a-kind soul created for the benefit of the world in one capacity or another. With this image in mind of them, when they come home angry, or frustrated, or the blame for some mistreatment of someone, you first are proud you were chosen to be the caretaker of this special soul, and then you get to work to bring them back to a healthy image you know them to be internally.
Before you take on the task of being the Great Self-Esteem Builder, you have to have great high self-esteem internalized. If there is some doubt in this area, I would suggest you address that ASAP for you and your children’s sake. You cannot give what you don’t have. You cannot be what you are not. You have to look at Who Self-Esteemed You? If you did come from a high self-esteem environment in your youth, then I congratulate you as you are well armed to now give the same to your children. BUT if you did not have high self-esteem as part of your culture and programming, then you have to work on filling that void in you. Find someone older that you respect that has a high self-esteem, compassionate, validating nature. Imagine that person being your mother or father, constantly building you up and supporting your dreams and aspirations. Imagine the bond and connection you have and how important that was and is to solidifying your life. THIS is what you are now passing along to your children.
Having a high self-esteem is essential to anyone’s growth and development and thus critical in making sure your children internalize this characteristic and important need. Having low self-esteem opens the doors to untold dark possibilities as those possibilities match how you feel. Are you the Great Self-Esteem Builder with your children? When you realize that you have a bully for a son/daughter, a withdrawn, isolative or a needy child, you have to act immediately so the problem does not escalate to a dangerous level. Studies have shown that when children are nurtured, cared for, touched a lot at the earliest of ages and continues to be the norm in the household, then the adverse behaviors of bullying, being isolative and overly needy will be at a minimum or non-existent. LOVE CONQUERS ALL. You all have heard this many times but how many of you practice this in every area of your life and how many of you use Love as the guiding principle when you are interacting with your children? Every morning when you first see yourself in the bathroom mirror, you should say, “I am the great Self-Esteem Builder” over and over with high energy and meaning. After a while this concept will seep into the sub-conscious and make a home there. Now when your sub-conscious has a hold to this, you will have this idea as the guiding principle whenever you interact with your children. You see them from a spiritual perspective, seeing only Good, seeing only Love, seeing only a unique one-of-a-kind soul created for the benefit of the world in one capacity or another. With this image in mind of them, when they come home angry, or frustrated, or the blame for some mistreatment of someone, you first are proud you were chosen to be the caretaker of this special soul, and then you get to work to bring them back to a healthy image you know them to be internally.
Before you take on the task of being the Great Self-Esteem Builder, you have to have great high self-esteem internalized. If there is some doubt in this area, I would suggest you address that ASAP for you and your children’s sake. You cannot give what you don’t have. You cannot be what you are not. You have to look at Who Self-Esteemed You? If you did come from a high self-esteem environment in your youth, then I congratulate you as you are well armed to now give the same to your children. BUT if you did not have high self-esteem as part of your culture and programming, then you have to work on filling that void in you. Find someone older that you respect that has a high self-esteem, compassionate, validating nature. Imagine that person being your mother or father, constantly building you up and supporting your dreams and aspirations. Imagine the bond and connection you have and how important that was and is to solidifying your life. THIS is what you are now passing along to your children.
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