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When you are pessimistic, your immune system is compromised and you are open to whatever viruses and dis-eases are lurking about. Your immune system is also compromised when you are: - Holding grudges - Lying - Harboring some negativity such as hate or revenge - Ingesting illegal and even legal drugs - Thinking of injurious thoughts. Just think about how the next generation would be if they were taught this simple mindset. As now proven, an optimistic mind-set boosts the immune system and as the Law of Attraction says, you draw to you that which you mentally and emotionally dwell upon. “What you think about, you bring about.” And as Dr. Denis Waitley says, “You are dominated by your most prevalent thought.” Knowing this valuable information, why would you or anybody make a conscious choice of being pessimistic, thus drawing the worst instead of the best toward themselves? When you get the chance to breathe clean, pure air and seeing what a bright sunny day produces, a sane, healthy mind would not choose anything but pure and bright light instead of pollution and darkness. Your children need to know this. Everything is a mind-set. Almost anything can be perceived differently, depending on circumstances and where you are emotionally, spiritually and mentally. It comes back to the choices you and your children make. You have all heard the metaphor - “glass, half empty or glass, half full.” Doesn’t it feel good to feel good? When you demonstrate gratitude for the resources that you have, and you feed the homeless, doesn’t it feel good? When you tell your children, after this act of charity, that good is the only reward for good, they feel that. Since they know that the best in life is headed their way, they plan now on giving to those less fortunate.
Parents, too often, don’t take the time to find out what children really need to be healthy, balanced, contributing, sharing, and loving adults. They, like my own mother, just accept “on-the-job-training,” and let current circumstances guide them along the way. Meanwhile, the children have to deal with the consequences of the voids, on one level or another, and sometimes the void turns into a trauma that lasts well into their adulthood, affecting others in the environment. The emotional needs of the children are not prioritized.
Optimism should be studied, accepted, internalized, and demonstrated first by you, the parent, then you, in turn, will impart the same to your child. It would prove beneficial if the child hears and sees the benefits of being optimistic, and then be rewarded when they act in an optimistic manner. Optimism should be the theme of the household and will be felt by everyone that enters your home. The positive energy of optimism is very contagious. When parents establish the energy of optimism into the household, the children become infected with this energy. In their minds they are thinking, “Well, if Mom/Dad can believe in the best in me there must something good in me to believe in.” These children are more likely to open themselves up to what their parent is bringing rather than shutting them out. Optimism is the key that unlocks the door, leading to the children’s mind. Once that door is open, a true partnership between the child and the parent is formed. That process plants the seed for the growth of miracles.
Optimism is also important for the camaraderie between parents. When parents support one another, boost each other and believe in the best in each other, you have an unstoppable team. This creates consistent modeling for the children. Children receive consistent messages everywhere they go which reinforces the optimistic standard established by YOU; And, they can’t play the “Bad Cop, Good Cop” game which happens all the time where parents are not fully supporting of one another with the SAME message.
If your children’s world consists of homicides, drugs, prostitution, chaotic school systems, gang activities, fear, hatred and internal isolation, discussions about positive life-giving experiences are foreign and even unacceptable. This is life to them and these are the references they use to guide and shape their life. You have to demonstrate optimism first as a new way to view life. You will give them new references as you take them out of their familiar environment into new possibilities. All of this and more is possible and probable with the internalization of optimism.
Isn’t it time to go from angry, bullying, depressed and/or underachieving children to happy, compassionate, loving children?
Parents with young children go NOW to www.cloudsofabundance.com and get your FREE Parent Video “5 Steps to Phenomenal Parenting”
When you are pessimistic, your immune system is compromised and you are open to whatever viruses and dis-eases are lurking about. Your immune system is also compromised when you are: - Holding grudges - Lying - Harboring some negativity such as hate or revenge - Ingesting illegal and even legal drugs - Thinking of injurious thoughts. Just think about how the next generation would be if they were taught this simple mindset. As now proven, an optimistic mind-set boosts the immune system and as the Law of Attraction says, you draw to you that which you mentally and emotionally dwell upon. “What you think about, you bring about.” And as Dr. Denis Waitley says, “You are dominated by your most prevalent thought.” Knowing this valuable information, why would you or anybody make a conscious choice of being pessimistic, thus drawing the worst instead of the best toward themselves? When you get the chance to breathe clean, pure air and seeing what a bright sunny day produces, a sane, healthy mind would not choose anything but pure and bright light instead of pollution and darkness. Your children need to know this. Everything is a mind-set. Almost anything can be perceived differently, depending on circumstances and where you are emotionally, spiritually and mentally. It comes back to the choices you and your children make. You have all heard the metaphor - “glass, half empty or glass, half full.” Doesn’t it feel good to feel good? When you demonstrate gratitude for the resources that you have, and you feed the homeless, doesn’t it feel good? When you tell your children, after this act of charity, that good is the only reward for good, they feel that. Since they know that the best in life is headed their way, they plan now on giving to those less fortunate.
Parents, too often, don’t take the time to find out what children really need to be healthy, balanced, contributing, sharing, and loving adults. They, like my own mother, just accept “on-the-job-training,” and let current circumstances guide them along the way. Meanwhile, the children have to deal with the consequences of the voids, on one level or another, and sometimes the void turns into a trauma that lasts well into their adulthood, affecting others in the environment. The emotional needs of the children are not prioritized.
Optimism should be studied, accepted, internalized, and demonstrated first by you, the parent, then you, in turn, will impart the same to your child. It would prove beneficial if the child hears and sees the benefits of being optimistic, and then be rewarded when they act in an optimistic manner. Optimism should be the theme of the household and will be felt by everyone that enters your home. The positive energy of optimism is very contagious. When parents establish the energy of optimism into the household, the children become infected with this energy. In their minds they are thinking, “Well, if Mom/Dad can believe in the best in me there must something good in me to believe in.” These children are more likely to open themselves up to what their parent is bringing rather than shutting them out. Optimism is the key that unlocks the door, leading to the children’s mind. Once that door is open, a true partnership between the child and the parent is formed. That process plants the seed for the growth of miracles.
Optimism is also important for the camaraderie between parents. When parents support one another, boost each other and believe in the best in each other, you have an unstoppable team. This creates consistent modeling for the children. Children receive consistent messages everywhere they go which reinforces the optimistic standard established by YOU; And, they can’t play the “Bad Cop, Good Cop” game which happens all the time where parents are not fully supporting of one another with the SAME message.
If your children’s world consists of homicides, drugs, prostitution, chaotic school systems, gang activities, fear, hatred and internal isolation, discussions about positive life-giving experiences are foreign and even unacceptable. This is life to them and these are the references they use to guide and shape their life. You have to demonstrate optimism first as a new way to view life. You will give them new references as you take them out of their familiar environment into new possibilities. All of this and more is possible and probable with the internalization of optimism.
Isn’t it time to go from angry, bullying, depressed and/or underachieving children to happy, compassionate, loving children?
Parents with young children go NOW to www.cloudsofabundance.com and get your FREE Parent Video “5 Steps to Phenomenal Parenting”
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