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You either receive the rewards of your proper mental mind-set or the punishments of your ignorance of the Law of Attraction. What kind of parent/child relationship do you really want? – One of contention or one of connection? One of mutual appreciation or one of disdain for the responsibility? Have you really given this question focused time and attention? You make choices every day for, or against your objectives. When you make the decisions that are not in your behalf and the pain sets in on one level or another, you wonder as you ask yourself, “Why is this happening?” Why don’t you think about the two universal laws you cannot escape? 1. Cause and Effect and 2. Law of Attraction.
You can understand why this subject of optimism is so important to have internalized as a parent. You can’t give what you don’t have. Children “Be what they see.” They do not, “Be what you say.” Children don’t understand the adult’s admonitions and directives apart from their physical presentation. (Remember the 93/7 rule of communication that I spoke of earlier?) In order for your training or molding to take place, you must have congruence with your total language. If you don’t have a firm belief in what you are saying or your body language is saying something else, your children will pick up on that. The results will be rebellion, arrogance, backtalk or just doing the thing that you told them not to do. When you internalize optimism, that energy is also picked up by your kids. When they see the best in you, which is demonstrated by your total language, you will naturally see them respond in a favorable way. So, as you are having discussions with your children, demonstrate optimism with him/her and tell them how much you believe in the best within them.
It is important to distinguish the outer self and their inner self. The outer self can err, do foolish and silly things and be mean-spirited. Whereas the inner self is always the self of truth, love, great potential, and is where all the great assets are hidden. Therefore, when you are consistent in saying how you love and believe in the best within them, you are going past their outer self of worldly influence. They can feel that, especially when they have done some kind of wrong and you still say the same thing about believing in their inner self and loving that which is within them.
Optimism is a missing factor in many of our young lives. Children have seen many devastations which can naturally affect their optimism, such as: - Parents arguing - Parents fighting - Ugly divorces - Dominating parents - Neglectful parents - Absent parents - Abusive parents - Child custody battles - Bullying - Sibling rivalries – Preferential treatments in household - Peer conflicts - Fears of the street life - Fears of the uncontrolled public schools - Fears of isolation and loneliness. Pessimism has become a way of life. Many have accepted it as their burden to bear, although their inner self lets them know that something is terribly wrong. Optimism will bring hope, love and light to a dim life of despair and depression. Optimism, once modeled and consistently demonstrated, will stimulate and motivate the person to dig down into their most inward possibilities and bring forth the greatness that matches their new levels of self-esteem and self-image. When a parent shows that they are optimistic about their child, and says to them that they truly believe and are supportive in the best that is within them, there is nothing that child feels they cannot accomplish.
The healthy-minded parent says to their child that: - They see in them, greatness which is greater than anything they could imagine - They see gold mines within them - They were born through excellence, greatness and by the Grace of God - They have a promised destiny to be major contributors in life. When a child hears and feels the energy of these statements from their parent(s), this is when the seed of miracles is planted. Whatever that child decides to do as they mature, their objective will be seen through the eyes of optimism, excellence, and making their goals a historic fact. You parents must see yourselves as winners in the parenting role you have accepted. Winners in life expect to win in advance because they think like winners. They see themselves crossing the finish line before they start. This is what makes optimism a real step by step process. Too often when people hear the word optimism, they blow it off or they say, “Sure I believe in the best,” without knowing the process to make it real in their lives. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTH RECEIVING IT. KNOW YOU DESERVE IT. SEE YOURSELF ENJOYING IT. FEEL THE FEELINGS OF HAVING IT. GIVE THANKS FOR RECEIVING IT, AND THEN KNOW THAT IT IS YOURS. Tell your children that there is a certain energy attached to optimism and when they are truly optimistic, people around them can feel it and they in turn start to feel positive. This is what they want – positive influences being attracted to them instead of the negative ones. Optimistic energy draws more optimistic energy to them, while those who are pessimistic won’t come around. When they internalize optimism, they emit an aura of protection against negative thoughts.
Optimism is my dominant vibration. Tell yourself this every morning. Negative thoughts are always going to be around, but they are at a minimum when they are charged with these positive ions of optimism. There is now, no welcome mat for negativity, so why would negativity hang around where it is not welcomed? Your children now feel better inside and outside. If they have a cold or some other type of dis-ease in their body temple, they will get better faster with an optimistic mind-set than one that is not optimistic.
Optimism is also connected to a healthy immune system and overall good health. Tell your children that when they have a mind-set of optimism, they raise their immune system, thus warding off many possible viruses or other illnesses that might come their way. They could be around other children who are sick and not get affected at all due to the level of optimism they have internalized.
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You either receive the rewards of your proper mental mind-set or the punishments of your ignorance of the Law of Attraction. What kind of parent/child relationship do you really want? – One of contention or one of connection? One of mutual appreciation or one of disdain for the responsibility? Have you really given this question focused time and attention? You make choices every day for, or against your objectives. When you make the decisions that are not in your behalf and the pain sets in on one level or another, you wonder as you ask yourself, “Why is this happening?” Why don’t you think about the two universal laws you cannot escape? 1. Cause and Effect and 2. Law of Attraction.
You can understand why this subject of optimism is so important to have internalized as a parent. You can’t give what you don’t have. Children “Be what they see.” They do not, “Be what you say.” Children don’t understand the adult’s admonitions and directives apart from their physical presentation. (Remember the 93/7 rule of communication that I spoke of earlier?) In order for your training or molding to take place, you must have congruence with your total language. If you don’t have a firm belief in what you are saying or your body language is saying something else, your children will pick up on that. The results will be rebellion, arrogance, backtalk or just doing the thing that you told them not to do. When you internalize optimism, that energy is also picked up by your kids. When they see the best in you, which is demonstrated by your total language, you will naturally see them respond in a favorable way. So, as you are having discussions with your children, demonstrate optimism with him/her and tell them how much you believe in the best within them.
It is important to distinguish the outer self and their inner self. The outer self can err, do foolish and silly things and be mean-spirited. Whereas the inner self is always the self of truth, love, great potential, and is where all the great assets are hidden. Therefore, when you are consistent in saying how you love and believe in the best within them, you are going past their outer self of worldly influence. They can feel that, especially when they have done some kind of wrong and you still say the same thing about believing in their inner self and loving that which is within them.
Optimism is a missing factor in many of our young lives. Children have seen many devastations which can naturally affect their optimism, such as: - Parents arguing - Parents fighting - Ugly divorces - Dominating parents - Neglectful parents - Absent parents - Abusive parents - Child custody battles - Bullying - Sibling rivalries – Preferential treatments in household - Peer conflicts - Fears of the street life - Fears of the uncontrolled public schools - Fears of isolation and loneliness. Pessimism has become a way of life. Many have accepted it as their burden to bear, although their inner self lets them know that something is terribly wrong. Optimism will bring hope, love and light to a dim life of despair and depression. Optimism, once modeled and consistently demonstrated, will stimulate and motivate the person to dig down into their most inward possibilities and bring forth the greatness that matches their new levels of self-esteem and self-image. When a parent shows that they are optimistic about their child, and says to them that they truly believe and are supportive in the best that is within them, there is nothing that child feels they cannot accomplish.
The healthy-minded parent says to their child that: - They see in them, greatness which is greater than anything they could imagine - They see gold mines within them - They were born through excellence, greatness and by the Grace of God - They have a promised destiny to be major contributors in life. When a child hears and feels the energy of these statements from their parent(s), this is when the seed of miracles is planted. Whatever that child decides to do as they mature, their objective will be seen through the eyes of optimism, excellence, and making their goals a historic fact. You parents must see yourselves as winners in the parenting role you have accepted. Winners in life expect to win in advance because they think like winners. They see themselves crossing the finish line before they start. This is what makes optimism a real step by step process. Too often when people hear the word optimism, they blow it off or they say, “Sure I believe in the best,” without knowing the process to make it real in their lives. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTH RECEIVING IT. KNOW YOU DESERVE IT. SEE YOURSELF ENJOYING IT. FEEL THE FEELINGS OF HAVING IT. GIVE THANKS FOR RECEIVING IT, AND THEN KNOW THAT IT IS YOURS. Tell your children that there is a certain energy attached to optimism and when they are truly optimistic, people around them can feel it and they in turn start to feel positive. This is what they want – positive influences being attracted to them instead of the negative ones. Optimistic energy draws more optimistic energy to them, while those who are pessimistic won’t come around. When they internalize optimism, they emit an aura of protection against negative thoughts.
Optimism is my dominant vibration. Tell yourself this every morning. Negative thoughts are always going to be around, but they are at a minimum when they are charged with these positive ions of optimism. There is now, no welcome mat for negativity, so why would negativity hang around where it is not welcomed? Your children now feel better inside and outside. If they have a cold or some other type of dis-ease in their body temple, they will get better faster with an optimistic mind-set than one that is not optimistic.
Optimism is also connected to a healthy immune system and overall good health. Tell your children that when they have a mind-set of optimism, they raise their immune system, thus warding off many possible viruses or other illnesses that might come their way. They could be around other children who are sick and not get affected at all due to the level of optimism they have internalized.
How to go from angry, bullying, depressed and/or underachieving children to happy, compassionate, loving children
Parents with young children go NOW to www.cloudsofabundance.com and get your FREE Parent Video “5 Steps to Phenomenal Parenting”
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