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Desire motivation, unlike fear motivation, drives you toward your goal of being a better, more compassionate, empathic parent. Fear motivation keeps you fixed on past trauma or past conditioning. Fear brings on anxiety, thoughts fixed on the negative past, panic and despair. Your childhood was dysfunctional with your mother micromanaging your life and not allowing free expression from you. Fear of her punishments kept you hiding within yourself. Now as a parent yourself, you want to do the best and be the best for your children and you call yourself motivated to do just that. BUT the motivation is Fear Based instead of Desire Based.
You keep hearing your mother’s stern parenting style and Fear prevents you from being your true, wonderful self. As you are parenting your child, in your subconscious, you hear the negative dialogue, “You better do as I say or else.” The fear vibration brings on anxiety and you saying subconsciously, “I’ll show You how it is supposed to be done.” As you interact with your children, the conflicting dialogue gets in the way of you really giving your best. As you do something positive, like asking your daughter to explain what fun she had in school today, and you sit there wanting to support her, that dialogue comes up telling you that you shouldn’t let your child speak openly. You are trying to smile and join your daughter in her happy time, but you can’t, due to that nagging voice telling you that you are wrong. You are operating from a Fear Motivation. Fear Motivation is like you looking at the rear-view mirror leaving your problems once and for all. Instead of looking forward to your new adventures, you are looking angrily at the past, telling yourself that you are finally done with all that negativity. Desire Motivation keeps you focused straight ahead toward your goal. This is why you, as the healthy, compassionate parent that you are, will be Desire Motivated. You need a new paradigm and this is why you are tuning in to this blog.
When you change your life based on fear motivation, you are doomed to repeat your mistakes. Desire motivation, unlike fear motivation, drives you toward your goal of being a better, more productive parent. When you are making the transition from the old paradigm to the new one, you want to look at your old mindset from the Observer point of view. You must know what you are detoxing from your system. Looking honestly looked at your situation you will probably find these negative flaws lurking around: - Mistakes - Bad choices - Insecurities - Unhealthy training - Poor example from your mother - Poor examples in your earlier environment.
Some parents accepted and internalized negative standards from their family and peers as a child. They also accepted their present condition which has been damaged by it all. This whole time finding out that the child within is crying and begging for needed attention. Not liking how they are feeling, they finally said to themselves that they: - Want better - Need better - Are deserving of better - Are now claiming better - Will have nothing but better in their life from this moment on. These parents are now honoring and protecting their soul and that child within. Their new higher standards are uncompromisable. They are now UNSTOPPABLE. This is the example of desire motivation. Their eyes are keenly fixed toward their goal and not on their past. They know exactly where they are going and have no thoughts of retreating.
Desire motivation puts optimism into your dominant thought (High Vibration) process. This tunes you into the OPTIMIST CHANNEL, thus inclining your thoughts toward optimism as a natural part of your thinking and behaving. Since here you are more sensitive to optimistic possibilities, you tend to see them everywhere and you inspire people around you with your positive behavior. There is a burning inner drive that propels you toward being the very best parent possible. It also triggers any memories of successes in your past and excites the need to replay these and to create more winning experiences. This is an important disposition to have as a healthy, compassionate, empathic parent.
Every day and even different parts of the day have to be spent in checking yourself to see if your thoughts, actions, self-talk and modeling are on your child-centered path. This is what you have to internalize in order to be that child-centered parent: - Drive - Persistence - Patience - Consistency - Faith – Deeds. All these items reflect your new disposition
Together we can transform your children from being angry, bullying, moody or too quiet to happy, compassionate, loving children. YES, and feel confident that you are using new compassionate parenting skills as opposed to how you were raised.
Parents with young children go NOW to www.cloudsofabundance.com and get your FREE Parent Video “5 Steps to Phenomenal Parenting”
Desire motivation, unlike fear motivation, drives you toward your goal of being a better, more compassionate, empathic parent. Fear motivation keeps you fixed on past trauma or past conditioning. Fear brings on anxiety, thoughts fixed on the negative past, panic and despair. Your childhood was dysfunctional with your mother micromanaging your life and not allowing free expression from you. Fear of her punishments kept you hiding within yourself. Now as a parent yourself, you want to do the best and be the best for your children and you call yourself motivated to do just that. BUT the motivation is Fear Based instead of Desire Based.
You keep hearing your mother’s stern parenting style and Fear prevents you from being your true, wonderful self. As you are parenting your child, in your subconscious, you hear the negative dialogue, “You better do as I say or else.” The fear vibration brings on anxiety and you saying subconsciously, “I’ll show You how it is supposed to be done.” As you interact with your children, the conflicting dialogue gets in the way of you really giving your best. As you do something positive, like asking your daughter to explain what fun she had in school today, and you sit there wanting to support her, that dialogue comes up telling you that you shouldn’t let your child speak openly. You are trying to smile and join your daughter in her happy time, but you can’t, due to that nagging voice telling you that you are wrong. You are operating from a Fear Motivation. Fear Motivation is like you looking at the rear-view mirror leaving your problems once and for all. Instead of looking forward to your new adventures, you are looking angrily at the past, telling yourself that you are finally done with all that negativity. Desire Motivation keeps you focused straight ahead toward your goal. This is why you, as the healthy, compassionate parent that you are, will be Desire Motivated. You need a new paradigm and this is why you are tuning in to this blog.
When you change your life based on fear motivation, you are doomed to repeat your mistakes. Desire motivation, unlike fear motivation, drives you toward your goal of being a better, more productive parent. When you are making the transition from the old paradigm to the new one, you want to look at your old mindset from the Observer point of view. You must know what you are detoxing from your system. Looking honestly looked at your situation you will probably find these negative flaws lurking around: - Mistakes - Bad choices - Insecurities - Unhealthy training - Poor example from your mother - Poor examples in your earlier environment.
Some parents accepted and internalized negative standards from their family and peers as a child. They also accepted their present condition which has been damaged by it all. This whole time finding out that the child within is crying and begging for needed attention. Not liking how they are feeling, they finally said to themselves that they: - Want better - Need better - Are deserving of better - Are now claiming better - Will have nothing but better in their life from this moment on. These parents are now honoring and protecting their soul and that child within. Their new higher standards are uncompromisable. They are now UNSTOPPABLE. This is the example of desire motivation. Their eyes are keenly fixed toward their goal and not on their past. They know exactly where they are going and have no thoughts of retreating.
Desire motivation puts optimism into your dominant thought (High Vibration) process. This tunes you into the OPTIMIST CHANNEL, thus inclining your thoughts toward optimism as a natural part of your thinking and behaving. Since here you are more sensitive to optimistic possibilities, you tend to see them everywhere and you inspire people around you with your positive behavior. There is a burning inner drive that propels you toward being the very best parent possible. It also triggers any memories of successes in your past and excites the need to replay these and to create more winning experiences. This is an important disposition to have as a healthy, compassionate, empathic parent.
Every day and even different parts of the day have to be spent in checking yourself to see if your thoughts, actions, self-talk and modeling are on your child-centered path. This is what you have to internalize in order to be that child-centered parent: - Drive - Persistence - Patience - Consistency - Faith – Deeds. All these items reflect your new disposition
Together we can transform your children from being angry, bullying, moody or too quiet to happy, compassionate, loving children. YES, and feel confident that you are using new compassionate parenting skills as opposed to how you were raised.
Parents with young children go NOW to www.cloudsofabundance.com and get your FREE Parent Video “5 Steps to Phenomenal Parenting”
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